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Enforce your values by living your life the way you want your child to live his/her life. You can set a good example by keeping a positive attitude, showing love and respect for others, using self control when it comes to handling stress and anger.
Teaching a child to be responsible will help him/her develop confidence, independence and the ability to meet life’s demands. A parent can teach responsibility by setting an example by being responsible in everything you do. For example, give your child age-appropriate tasks or chores. Set clear expectations and let your child deal with the consequences of his/her actions.
Good communication involves both speaking and listening. Speak to your children on a level they can understand (i.e., speak in a simple and sincere manner). Careful attention to your child’s thoughts and feelings are important.
Good parenting includes enforcing rules and saying “no” as long as it is done in a manner in which the reprimanding is of focus on the behavior, not the child. Avoid flying off the handle, spanking or yelling. Discipline children with love and consequences appropriate for the circumstance/action being taught. Doing so teaches your child constructive ways to handle frustration and anger. Consistency is key! Praising and rewarding your child for good behavior reinforce the values you want your child to learn.
Factors to keep in mind when you child misbehaves are:
- Don’t embarrass your child
- Control your emotions
- Act promptly
- Match consequences with deeds
- Remind your child you care & love them
Take advantage of every opportunity to show your child you love them. Following are some suggestions:
- Use nonverbal methods of showing you care (hugs, kisses, tender touches)
- Show your love at all times, not just when your child does something that pleases you
- Praise your child often using words such as “good job,” “terrific,” and “special.”
- Make special time for you and your child
- Get involved with your child’s activities and plan things that include your child
Teach your child good manners and praise them when they use good manners. Take advantage of real-life situations to show your child how to interact with others. Teach your child the importance of listening when others speak, and respecting the feelings of others.
- Provide a Safe Environment for your Child
Making your home safe will give your child a sense of security and safety. Make sure there are no hazards in the home that may impact on your child’s safety and health. Always choose babysitters with whom you know and trust and with whom your child is comfortable. Under no circumstance should you threaten to abandon your child. |
